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Selena Quintanilla Pérez : The Greatest Woman


 Selena Quintanilla Pérez : The Greatest Woman

Selena is the greatest female performer. Her star was the brightest. Her energy was her life, her life was her music. Her presence and passion on stage was her manifestation of all these qualities. Her voice was her lion's roar. Her energy was an explosion. Her explosion was a love for life. 

I am 56 years old today. I remembered her when she was alive. I appreciated her then, but I worship her today. We live in declining times, declining cultures. I will not speak negatively of others, only to say that I realize now more so how great Selena is. 

Selena was a very strong woman, a very feminine woman, and those go together hand-in-hand. She was a very sexy woman by nature, au natural, with elegance and purity. She became who she became. She was an original. Selena was a self-made woman. She didn't come from famous parents. Nothing was handed to her. She came from a poor family but a very supportive family.   

There is no woman like her today, certainly not with all these qualities and with all the passion and talent combined. Unfortunately, this seems lost today in the "West." 

Tattoos, vulgarity and profanities are no substitute, but a sign of conformity and mediocrity.  

I now often watch Selena as an inspiration and to refuel my soul, to keep moving forward in this declining world, knowing that I will never see a woman like this again in my lifetime, but also understanding that I was fortunate to have seen her shadows, her images, and to have heard her voice, her singing, her dancing, her movements, her smiles, her laughter.   

I felt an obligation to write this. It is my way of thanking her, for the world she made, and for the world I (and many others) can enter into to be with her. No politician or government program can give this to people. Selena's sense of life is unmatched. She was an original. God bless you Selena.      

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